What can I tell you? Mine is not like that, what he thinks mainly of himself. And when he tries to irritate or excite me, he really rarely succeeds. Usually I have to take over the whole self and I will do it myself the best. I also have various helpers for that. Lately, I've liked such a rather small but wonderfully shaped vibrator. At first, I do it only when I don't turn it on, for example I let a friend do it – to do it hard for me with that little piece of electronics.